Walking in love when you don’t agree
Have you ever had a friend, family member, co-worker, or other relationship where you had a topic (or several) you didn't see the same?
Disagreeing is often a case of misunderstanding. Perhaps you know more about the topic than the other person or vice versa. Maybe one isn't open or interested in learning more. Is it frustrating? Absolutely!
What is more important? Being right and having the last word or having peace and maintaining the relationship? I hope you choose the latter.
There will never be a relationship where both agree 100% of the time on all matters. God created us to be different. He gave each of us unique strengths, weaknesses, passions, and desires.
Why? As Jesus said in Matthew 5, "You have heard it said, "Love your neighbor and hate your enemy." But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute (mistreat, harass, bully, annoy) you. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? And if you greet only your people, what are you doing more than others?
Am I referring to my family and friends as my enemies? Absolutely not! If I only kept the company of people that agreed with everything I believed, I wouldn't hold the same company for long, would I? We must walk in love with one another and be mature.
One thing to always consider is that we all have different perspectives. Both people may be correct in their own right. Take time to learn why they don't see the topic at hand the same as you. Please do not make it a debate but rather an open conversation with the intent to understand each other better. If there is incorrect information, be polite, and offer factual information. Do not boast; never make others feel inferior for their lack of knowledge. Treat them as you would want to be treated.
Leviticus 19:18 - Do not take revenge or bear a grudge against members of your community, but love your neighbor as yourself.
Proverbs 19:11 - Sensible people control their temper; they earn respect by overlooking offenses.
Philippians 2:4 - Each of you should look not only to your interests but also to the interests of others.